Take the steps necessary throughout divorce proceedings to physically separate. Consider the move ahead in the following three stages:

·      Before

Make all critical, legal agreements necessary with your spouse. Develop a solid financial statement, separating debts and assets. Pay off as much as possible, clearly define debts, and keep records of divorce expenses.

·      During

You may have to sell the family home. If you need money to move on, and are waiting for the sale, raise funds while you wait. Consider a bridge loan, selling off stocks, or borrow from your 401(k).

·      After

Check your credit to remove post-divorce, home-buying obstacles, and get a clear view of your income. Keep home buying in line with your new situation.

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When a Prenup Gets Thrown Out

by News on July 14, 2014

You don’t have to live with a bad prenuptial agreement. It is definitely worth your time and effort to have a good lawyer reexamine the terms. If you find that the pre-nup significantly reduces the amount you would have received without the agreement, then you should take measures to have the pre-nup set aside. Besides issues of fairness, it is important to deal with fraud, duress, and full disclosure. Were you made fully aware of all financial information, and was it presented in any way that felt like force or pressure? If your pre-nup did not protect you or secure your future, call a lawyer right away.

Read the full article here: When a Prenup Gets Thrown Out | Stann Givens

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What Child Support Does Not Cover

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Every parent wants the best for their children. Who wouldn’t want their child to have extracurricular opportunities, like piano lessons or little league? Unfortunately, many times a custodial parent doesn’t realize that those extras, and the costs entailed, will likely fall on their shoulders. Child support in many states does not cover enrichment and higher-level […]

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Setting a Positive Example for Tech Use with Your Kids

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Technology can help or hurt your family. It is important to monitor closely the impact of those glowing screens as you and yours navigate divorce, new family dynamics, and healthy boundaries. Keep a vigilant eye on addictive tendencies. Sometimes the pain of divorce, and a multitude of changes, will make the constantly available escape of […]

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